Sometimes you want a year end reflection, and it is not December. You just need a pause. A look back. A clearer sense of what mattered. Then one gentle move forward.
These prompts are for that moment. Use them at the end of a year, after a big change, on your birthday, or anytime you want to take stock without turning it into a full life audit.
You do not need to answer all 30. Pick three that feel true. Write a few honest lines. Stop. If a prompt feels like too much, skip it.
Look back
What has this past season asked of me. What did it teach me about my limits.
What did I keep doing even when it was hard. What does that say about my strengths.
What did I handle better than I expected, even if it was messy.
What loss, change, or disappointment still sits with me. What do I need to acknowledge.
What did I outgrow in this season. A role, a habit, a way of relating.
What did I learn about how I work best. Energy, time, people, pace.
What did I keep postponing. Was it fear, fatigue, or timing. What does that tell me.
What did I avoid. What was I protecting myself from.
What did I miss. What mattered about it.
What am I proud I kept going with, quietly.
Notice what matters
What am I grateful for that is ordinary. Not impressive. Just real.
What support helped me most. A person, a place, a routine, a tool.
Where did I feel most like myself. What was present in that moment.
Where did I feel stretched too thin. What needs to change around that.
What relationships felt like home. What relationships drained me.
What boundary did I hold well. What boundary needs to be clearer.
Where did I spend energy that did not come back to me.
What did I make harder than it needed to be. What is the simpler version.
What story did I tell myself that kept me stuck. What is a kinder, truer story.
What am I done forcing.
Move forward
What do I want to keep the same because it supports me.
What do I want to do differently in the next season. Not everything. One thing.
What am I ready to stop proving. To whom. At what cost.
What do I want to forgive myself for. What would forgiveness look like in practice.
What would a steady season look like for me. Not a perfect one. A steady one.
What do I want to feel more of next. And what supports that feeling.
What do I want to practise next. Not achieve. Practise.
What is one boundary that would protect my energy going forward.
What is one support I need more of. How can I ask for it.
What is one next step that would make the next season feel easier to manage.
Choose one prompt that feels honest. Write a few lines. Let that be enough for today.
Next steps
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